Slapping a face is a step up from spanking a butt. If you or your partner would like to be slapped without the buffer, you can have that conversation, but I highly recommend you keep it in place for a while. If possible, take a class on slapping. I find that the easiest way to introduce a partner to slapping is by watching some where slapping is an element. Master the fundamentals first, then you can get slaphappy. Slapping can be very empowering and sexy for some people, and not at all for others.
Now, you might not be into butt slapping, but are turned on by face slapping. A butt is going to absorb a slap more easily than a face. I recommend something like the following: banana, red, sailboat, strawberry, etc. It gives you permission to pull out of the scene, even briefly, without quelling out the sexual charge.
There is generally less pain and greater surface area to work with. You can also pull them out during for a slap across the face before you put them back to work. When slapping, never go for it willy nilly. That is non-consensual play and a big no-no. No slapping until the is on lock. Meaning, no going to Pornhub or RedTube.
Stay away from places like the ears or eyes. Any erotic pain-play can stir up emotions in many of us. Sex comes with all kinds of emotions, both positive and negative. Follow her on and GigiEngle. This , from Nina Pain, is basically face slapping 101.
Gigi Engle is a certified sex coach, educator, and writer living in Chicago. Here is a from sex ed genius Jess Wilde. It can very helpful to see things for yourself. Porn is a fun, easy-going way to get your partner chill with the idea of slapping before trying it. The point is, you want to know everything you can before trying anything yourself.
There should certainly not be any unexpected face slapping during sex. The face is a highly sensitive area that requires careful navigation. Work your way up to harder smacks. In fact, any sexual act between consenting adults is perfectly fine. Look for something on a female-focused site such as or.
Are you curious about slapping your partner or being slapped by your partner during sex? Hence, beginning with spanking and softer face slaps. Have an open an honest conversation—and get some inspiration. Do your research, both of you! This should be a non-sexual word that lets your partner know they should stop and check in with you. If you accidentally make contact with an ear, the nose, or an eye, stop immediately and check in.
Your safe word is a safetynet. If you slap someone across the face, you can wind up with whiplash or causing too much of a sting. Before you do anything, you have to talk everything through. .
Rub the spot where you hit them to soothe the skin. This helps to both stabilize their head and to absorb some of the blow. Everyone should be into it every step of the way. Practice on butts, and then move to faces. When it comes to , we can get a bit uncomfortable. Face slapping is basically butt slapping, only more advanced and with more risks.
Place your hand on the other cheek. There are plenty of places in major cities that offer free classes such as and. If you slap someone in the ear, you can cause physical harm in a way that is absolutely not sexy at all. The goal is to elicit excitement, not fear.