There was never a question of whether we'd continue with kink—it's a huge part of what makes us tick. We've been doing this since we met at a sex party in New York City. So many people are terrified of infidelity, but it doesn't affect our lives. The next month, I came back by myself.
We don't socialize with the couples outside the scene since we don't have much in common with them besides sex—I guess it's the same as if you were in a hiking group and only saw that set of people on hikes. We no longer attended parties by ourselves. Seductive beauties following guys to the restrooms to give outstanding blowjobs and to get their pussies and asses fucked while the music is pumping in the background, and wild college teens engaging in actual orgies inside the dorm rooms. I was never fully satisfied in my previous relationships and ended up cheating a lot because I loved the rush of sex with a stranger. It's a way to get to know each other in a non-kinky setting, and it made me realize how normaleveryone was.
We're as careful as we can be, and luckily, it seems a lot of the partygoers we associate with feel similarly. Derek stopped playing with other women when I wasn't around. There are actually two common types of parties: play parties, which are usually held in bars or clubs and require everyone to cover their private parts; and then the more hardcore parties held at someone's home, which are generally limited to guests pre-screened by the hosts. Anyone who doesn't follow the rules is kicked out and banned. I know this can sound depraved and shocking to people who haven't been to sex parties, but it doesn't feel that way.
And we're always safe—hosts set up condoms and wipes and Derek and I are scrupulous about safety. Ultimately, I'm not sure how much longer we'll be on the scene. Because our marriage is nontraditional, we really have totalk about our emotions and expectations. In fact, I feel just as close to him when I'm having sex with a stranger as I do when I'm in bed with him. Luckily, Derek and I are pretty good at communicating. .
Incredible beauties get drunk and ready to do insane things in this state, even take part in a group sex. At this point, Derek and I know a lot of people who attend, so it doesn't ever feel weird. It was Derek who showed me the ropes at one of the first parties I attended on my own. We began playing together, which I guess means we had a sort of friends-with-benefits situation. Enjoy some of your favorite pornstars sucking cocks on the club sofas and getting their tight round butts drilled by horny strippers. It also helps that I, like many other women on the scene, like sleeping with women—and it seems my husband and I have the same taste.
But the longer Derek and I hung out, the more I realized how deep our connection ran. Ob kleine Sexpartys oder private Einzel Session sowie große Fetisch und Bizarr Veranstaltungen. I know Derek and I love each other, so I don'tfeel jealous when I see him have sex with a hot 20-something single girl—the same type of woman I was when he met me. In one corner, a high-heeled woman walked on a man. In another, a couple flogged a woman. We moved in together six months later and got engaged two years after we met.
I love watching my husband have sex and seeing how skilled he is at pleasing women. And I think these are good conversations to have—speaking up makes us closer. When the babes start to party there's nothing stopping them from having the wildest hardcore fun ever, so get ready to witness some pretty intense sex scenes and messy cumshots. The feelings are incredibly intense during sex, and the day after, I can sometimes seem a bit moody, spacey, and weird. We'd experiment with different types of kinky sex, but I didn't imagine that it would turn into a relationship.
But for now, it's fun, we're safe, and it's a great alternative to another Friday night of red wine and Netflix. It just seemed too surreal. Hier finden Sie die geilen Events der Swinger oder privaten Veranstalter sowie Events. The only thing: He's not the man I'm having sex with—my partner is a friend of ours, and a circle of half-clothed strangers and acquaintances are watching the scene. I absolutely believe in shameless sexuality, but I also know that I don't want my future kids to have any inkling that sex parties, which can be an incredible, emotional roller coaster, are part of our lives. The view for us guys was always great and invariably we would take a break and get one of the young ladies to fuck.
Well before 50 Shades of Grey, I fantasized about submission, anonymous sex, and having sex while other people watched. We just bought a house in suburban New Jersey, we both work—I'm in marketing, he's an architect—and we are planning to start a family. This type of sex is such a high, it's almost as if I have a hangover. Didn't make a lot of money, but the fringe benefits were pretty good.